My sister called me to watch a video on youtube and it was a fabulous video and yet interesting.
The name of that video is 'What if hetero was frowned upon' and carried an amazing information. Based on its name, more or less, you already know what is the content of that video. So, as mentioned above, what if homosexual is normal whilst heterosexual is not? The video depicted a fantastic information and indeed important for all people to know. Some people said it was dramatized but if you have seen the youths or people who suffered the from it you won't say that. You say you may still be their friends but not to know a single detail about their sex life but would you be very much interested of a hetero sex life? I mean that doesn't make sense because as an individual that's private and either way it shouldn't be asked or shared.
A lot of people afraid that they may go to hell or their religion forbids homosexuality. When you ask why so and the reason is pretty simple: God doesn't make you that way- to like the same gender, homosexual people can't reproduce! Well personally they're pretty constrained and the thing that worries them is the nation will go extinct. Oh dear God, you have made a handful of humans but why didn't you make them possess a little wisdom?
First, if a God decided to put you into hell simply because you're homosexual, i don't see at all the point of you staying beside him. You can scold me for degrading the God but let's be realistic, if God did that to His believers would you really like Him? This is the same when an empire has a bad ruler, the citizens are risen to fight against his cruelty. Doesn't that make things clear? I have my belief and i believe in my God for His kindness for all His believers. He made us because he wants us to live and as well love each others. That's what his teaching has always been i won't deny that for the very least. And so, why would he punish us for just being your own with your own skin and in fact, you're a lovely person who does no harm to anyone! If a crime culprit is to compare to a gay person, com'on, isn't clear enough who's the real problem here. Conclusion, He loves us. He won't put his lovely believers into hell for being themselves and instead of that, He loves them even more. If you believe, you believe. I believe. Because in every religion the God shares a mutual purpose- The best for their believers and love them no matter what because, as everyone said, they are our fathers, afterall.
Second, God didn't make homosexual, He didn't make humans that way. Okay, who the hell are you to speak upon God. So should a person blindly believe whatever that's written by men, after centuries and centuries, was altered for numerous times, how accurate can it be? If you really wanted a guideline so badly. Let me tell you, if a human can't even capable of thinking or rationalize a matter, and simply believe whatever written which was thought passing down by the God don't know how many centuries ago, please, put on your thinking cap and think about it again.
And, reproduction? How funny you're worry about reproduction. I would rather say every person favours different things. Thus some individuals are much prefer to live a life with the same gender and some with different gender. So there's no point of worrying about extinction because homosexuality are not capable of killing off the whole nation! There are people who love being in a heterosexual relationship and so they can have children. What's the big deal? Every single minute passed a person is dead, as being estimated, due to many factors like famine or contagious diseases. If that doesn't kill the whole nation in the past history why would you even worry about homosexual relationship? Simply because they can't reproduce doesn't mean that they're defected or what, they're still a human being who God has put in a big effort of making him. And there are couples who are infertile and you never grouped them in. Reason is simple, they are still a human being, loved by the people who cared about them. The same principle applying to homosexual persons.
The only problem here is stereotype. And this is unfair. And your personal point of view is selfish. A person who never follows the crowd doesn't make them a queer. They simply don't like the thing most people favoured. And you gotta learn that it is a fact. You like reading but i don't. You like eating greens but i don't. Simple as that. You won't like people calling you a weirdo when you don't share a common interest. And definitely people won't call you a weirdo as well for not eating greens because in their mind, it is fine to hate eating vegetables.
And the topic of being a homosexual is a choice. Please don't drag that in. It doesn't matter if it is a choice or not because people adjust to make themselves comfortable. I don't deny environment plays a part but remember, reason for a person to change varies due to a number of factors and 'born with it' is one of all. We try not to judge. We are no them. We don't know a thing. Let's be just neutral here. Just think neutral. The problem nowadays is majority of people has accepted that homosexual is abnormal and such acceptance changes when the majority thought it is okay. How horrifying it is people just follow as if they don't have a choice. In fact, they do.
The hatred and bully happening all around the world are overwhelming and i think they're lacking an open-mind to learn. So much things to learn and if a person couldn't put down his egoism and open up his mind, there will never be an improvement. Trust me. Suicide has become a common solution for youths who undergoing such hellish torment. What i'm trying to say is, you gotta be strong. Just stand up and be strong. Things can get very bad but you still have to be strong because if you don't, no one can do anything for you. Before getting help from others you need to help yourself. Before getting respect from others you gotta respect yourself and most importantly, before you can love a person, you gotta love yourself first. Everything starts with yourself and you will somehow get an energy to keep moving on. For no one but yourself. And definitely you can do it because once you're out of the mist, you're good because you're strong now, no one can ever harm you. Nobody can. Love yourself.
I have no idea who may read this but anyone who is undergoing a very hard time and read this by accident, i hope you can put back up your big boy pants and start putting yourself back on your feet backing to your life, outed of depression. You deserve a little smile in heart. Somehow at some point in your life, you will need to keep reminding yourself to never back up and be brave to walk the path down every single day. You will be amazed how far you have gotten yourself already>When you look onto the bright blue sky, panting sweating and feeling the warm sunlight shining on your skin. Can you feel the wind caressing your cheek? Your hair's flying the grass is singing. And that's how your future looks like. You don't give up.
May God bless.
